Friday, 28 April 2017
When a man silently comes up from behind and hugs a woman, he closes a circle. His and her circle. This is a circle of tenderness, warmth, and protection. And he places a woman right into the middle of this passionate circle. He shows that in this particular moment, she is the center of his universe. She feels the warm currents emanating from these hot and peaceful hands.
When a man hugs a woman, She feels like she has wings, and she can fly. This circle of love is calm and cozy. This silent tenderness makes her melt like a sugar cube in a cup of tea.
What does she feel? Who is she in this moment? Is she a woman, or a girl? After all, he’s just holding her, protecting her from the outside world that is so cold and lonely. But in his arms it is warm and comfy. These arms are her protection and tranquility. It is everything a woman unknowingly looks for, waits for and hopes for…
Hug your lady more often. Place her in the centre of your circle. Cherish her by showing her how tender and sensual your love can be. Just love her — she craves it, however strong she pretends to be.
Friday, 14 April 2017
Losing the one you love..
Your eyes will never stop searching for them in a crowd.
So many people become stories and poetry, but they hardly know!
Not all of us have a happy ending, some are just tragically beautiful.
When you lose once in a lifetime kind of people, there is no way to deal with the loss.
The loss of a lover, for any reason is a heartbreaking experience. Some never fully recover. There might always be a small place in your heart that holds the pain of this experience. You shared something profound together. And suddenly one day it's gone. The sudden awareness that you can't call them and be comforted is worst.
Her hair no longer on your pillows.
His toothbrush no longer by your sink.
Her perfume no longer lingering in the air.
His shirts missing from your closet.
That stuff hurts.
Your broken heart wants to know how love, which is obviously a giant lie told by people to destroy others, still exists in the world.
You see happy couples doing all the cute things that you were just doing a few months ago and you think "it won't last" or "I hate them."
And who the hell are these people announcing their relationships and engagements on Facebook? Don't they know that the world ended?
After all, love only leads to pain, right? That's how it feels. Love itself is at fault.
Saturday, 1 April 2017
You are worthy of love and belonging, just by way of having been born into this beautiful planet.
You deserve to be loved fiercely.
You deserve to be loved by a man who knows how to love hard, know you inside out- your fears, worries, insecurities, phobias, and doubts, and want even more to love you through every last one of them for who you are at your beautiful core.
Who wants to see you at seven a.m. with eyes that only open halfway and strands of hair stuck to my bottom lip.
A man who understands that love is shown through the little things.
Same like talking to an all-time-soul-understanding-friend and having a one-life-time conversation with a heart friend leaving the best footprint over the years.
It is in the soul of an individual to be with the one where life will automatically transforms into the best adventures experiencing the roller coaster ride worth trying, all filled with amazing and awe. They understand your needs, even before you say it out.
It isn't about looks, nor money but the simplicity in life that is so attractive together. Knowing you could survive anywhere as long as you are together.
Monday, 27 March 2017
You deserve someone who -
Does not think your relationship is too old to flirt with you.
Is totally transparent to you.
Writes to you.
Doesn't belittle you.
Loves you fiercely despite those nasty 3-4 kgs you put on.
Believes you are worthy of love and belonging.
Knows how to love hard.
Understands that love is shown through the little things.
Wants to know you. Know the slight line between your elbows. And the shape your furrow makes between your brows. Know how exactly your lips curve into a full-blown smile.
Gives you the most enchanting, stable, and unbreakable entwining you’ve ever known.
Finds a permanent home, not just a halting station in you.
You can walk with. Travel with. And find pockets of magic in grey city dullness.
Love is making a choice every single day, to either love or not love. That’s it. It’s that simple. Either to continue the process or not. You deserve someone who chooses you every damn day.
Friday, 3 March 2017
Genre: Non-Fiction / Self help
Publishers: Fingerprint Publishing House
Price: Rs. 250/-
Open-Eyed Meditations is author Shubha Vilas’ latest offering.
The cover is vibrant as well as simple. The image gives a clear idea of what to expect from the book.
Open-Eyed Meditations is a non-fiction book with a series of chapters based on the teachings of Mahabharata and Ramayana. Each chapter takes up one issue and offers a practical solution to it by linking it to one or more incident from the epics.
Spanning across 280 pages, the book has 64 chapters and each chapter emphasizes some aspect or other of human behavior and how to handle different situations that we encounter in our day to day life.
Shubha Vilas has delved deep into human mind and brought to light varied types of negative emotions and behavior. He has offered solutions to them using from most famous to least known incidents from the epics. Lord Rama, Krishna and Hanuman stand out in the book for their wisdom, fearlessness, dexterity and intelligence. His lessons might appear preachy but if looked closely, they are practical solutions for the modern era.
The language used is a fine balance between rich and simple sentences. Fresh ideas on the subjects of relationships, fears and phobias, and the riveting concept of the X factor, synergy and game changer makes his work distinctive.
Concepts such as fixed, rigid and realistic mindset of humans, emotional, thought oriented and uplifting personalities have been skilfully introduced. Treatment of the process of letting go, importance of time and events on human mind, power of responsibility and possessing an uncomplaining attitude is quite captivating.
Dealing with over analyzing certain things in life, he suggests that we disconnect from lower thought processes and all lower connections when trying to reach for higher goals in life. He gives us techniques to focus and move ahead in life by switching off everything below it. Decision making skills has been impressively dealt with in a chapter that brings forth several circumstances from the Mahabharata.
Several topics like being in service to your surroundings, dealing with emotions like anger and jealousy, how to overcome fear, perfectionism, trained intelligence to deal with a hurt heart, how to deal with negativity and feeling hurt by ones you love the most are dealt with in such a simple way that you need to read and re-read to let it all sink in.
This book is a powerhouse of knowledge and surely deserves a place in every bookshelf. This is a book that has to be read again and again to sharpen and educate our mind into handling different situations that we might encounter in life. It gives a broader picture of life and advises us on how to behave with people, understand each other, relate to problems, handle tough situations and take correct decisions.
I would definitely recommend this book to everyone as it has all the elements that which followed will help us lead a happy and meaningful life. This book will help you learn the art of meditating with your eyes wide open as you keenly observe the world around you and allow it to enlighten you.
After reading this book, I am feeling a positive vibes around me. This book is wonderful and it is urging me to change my way of thinking. This book taught me various lessons and gives me various answers which I was searching. If you are feeling low and need to get inspiration then just read these lines and it will boost up your spirit. This book can be a great gift to anybody.
Rating: This book is a learning experience, it is a precious book which can be read again and again! I felt a mental check with each and every line I read and has given me more intense and deeper internal dialogues with myself. Overall a profound book, deep and mystical one that can change lives! Strongly recommended for one and all.